Sexual problems in men and women

Men

Many men have sexual problems. They become more common as men age. Problems can include

Erectile dysfunction (when a man has trouble getting or keeping an erection)
Reduced or lost interest in sex
Problems with ejaculation
Low testosterone
Stress
Illness
Medicines
Emotional problems
Occasional problems with sexual function.

Women

There are many problems that can keep a woman from enjoying sex. They include

Lack of sexual desire
Inability to become aroused
Lack of orgasm, or sexual climax
Painful intercourse
Occasional problems with sexual function

These problems may have physical or psychological causes. Physical causes may include conditions like diabetes, heart disease, nerve disorders, or hormone problems. Some drugs can also affect desire and function. Psychological causes may include work-related stress and anxiety. They may also include depression or concerns about marriage or relationship problems. For some women, the problem results from past sexual trauma.

If problems last more than a few months or cause distress for you or your partner, you should see your health care provider.